protection

To protect myself, I had to push you away. But the truth is—you were never the one who truly hurt me.

The one who did was _________.

Now, I take full responsibility for healing that part of me.

The way we choose our partners often reflects how we were loved, how we felt loved. If you've been avoidant, unfaithful, jealous, possessive, violent, or emotionally indifferent, it’s likely you’re still keeping a distance between yourself and your wounds—pretending everything is fine while acting out in harmful ways toward others.

Being in a relationship isn't just about love. Love can be easy. The real question is: Do I want to heal with this person by my side?

Because in the end, it’s not just about love. It’s about choosing someone to do the healing with.

Much Love, 
Marine Sélénée