A few days ago, I was chatting with one of my soul sisters and shared how worried I am for my nephew and niece. The world feels so intense and uncertain right now. But she looked at me and said, “Oh hon, don’t worry for them—worry for us!” At first, I didn’t get it. But five minutes into her explanation, I had to admit—she was absolutely right.

Family Constellations and Endobiogeny share a profound common ground—both go beyond surface-level symptoms to get to the true root of what needs healing. I was first introduced to these approaches for deeply personal reasons, and it was love at first sight. They touched me in ways that felt both transformative and undeniable.

Have you ever made a decision in a moment of panic—when your mind was racing, your chest was tight, and you just needed relief from the discomfort? Maybe it was saying yes to a job that didn’t feel right, staying in a relationship that drained you, or impulsively spending money to feel better, even if just for a moment. If you're nodding, you're not alone.

To restore balance to the living—To rediscover harmony between dark and light, love and hate, health and disease, masculine and feminine, past and present. The more I learn about Endobiogeny, the more I see the bigger picture of what it truly means to take care of ourselves. It’s made me realize why Western medicine—while powerful—has its limitations. 

Co-dependency can be tricky. Of course we all want to be seen, heard, and acknowledged—that’s human. But if we keep chasing external validation to feel safe, confident, loved, or joyful, we set ourselves up for frustration and anxiety. Why? Because we have no control over the external world.

You never accepted the lie that to be a good mother you had to give up yourself. You chose not to sacrifice your dreams. And maybe that wasn’t easy. Maybe it came with judgment. But what I see when I look at you is a woman who is fulfilled, who is whole, who did what she came here to do. And that, to me, is everything.