Some of my female clients kept recommending the book "The Surrendered Wife" by Laura Doyle. I finally decided to read it. Well, I agree with the author's perspective about 70%. There was around 30% for me that was a bit too old fashioned for our time. I believe that our men have grown up and are embracing + accepting women reclaiming their lives, financial independence, and having a voice. 

Do you remember that pure Love? It probably lasted 9 months, more or less. It was amazing. All your needs were met without doing or asking for anything. You felt completely safe, completely well taken care of, and you could feel the Love coming towards you.

Any type of successful and nurturing relationships is the right balance between giving and receiving. Because that latter involved that relationship is based on respect, trust, vulnerability and so true intimacy can exist. And you can see it in any constellations when there is a lack of balance between giving and receiving, the family members are angry, resentful and bittersweet. Because none of them feel seen, heard and recognized.

Do you. Feel you. You know what’s best for you. You know what makes you feel good. So, spend less time on social media where it is no longer an app to connect anymore but to sell you any type of shit that you never thought you would need. Go back to your foundation, your basics, what works for you as your own person.

That's how our family system can keep living its own growth, generation after generation, doing better and better. You want your children to do better than you and that is the proper order.  Same thing with Freedom. So many of our ancestors fought for Freedom as they knew it was the best gift ever in this life. Let’s not forget about them. Let’s still keep fighting for the right to be Free. The right to live your life as you would like. The right to feel Free at work, in love, with your family, with your friends. 

We all experience aha moments that bring us, in a second, all the clarity we were looking for. It happened to me a few days ago after another healing session with Paul Canali (If you are in Miami, I highly recommend you to see him). After two previous amazing sessions with Paul that brought me so much peace, I decided to go see him again after my vacation in LA.