When you do a Family Constellations session, you know that you will end a story in order to write a new one. What you might not know is that a new story cannot happen through resentment, anger, frustration or blame. It only happens through peace, love, and kindness towards your acknowledgment and recognition of what was. 

If you want to begin exploring this harmonization, just for now, acknowledge and visualize behind you, the men and women’s lineages of your family. Feel their presence, lean on them, and bow in front of them. When you will feel connected to them, say out loud or silently: “I receive and take from both sides.”

To all of you, who lost their light, it will come back. At first, it’s a glimpse of light. Then it looks more like a disco ball. And then, it’s an inward feeling, breathing deeper, a crack in your heart, finally letting the light enter. It’s when the masculine & feminine re-harmonize after one of them betrayed us.

The exhilaration of Life is to feel alive. To feel connected with ourselves. To feel that we are not living a parallel life to our current life but actually, to merge with it.

By believing in a better foreseeable future without knowing exactly how it will happen on a concrete level. Having faith that it will happen. Trusting that it will find a way and meet you when you least expect it.

Follow your vision, daring to create the life of your dreams. Because in the end, if you keep waiting for the perfect moment, the only thing for sure that you will get, is just aging.